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How to Pet a Horse

By Pam Goldberg Smith | Updated September 26, 2017

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Just as you would with a strange dog, you should first ask permission before petting a horse. As prey animals, horses are afraid of new people. For all the horse knows, you could be a predator who wants to make a meal out of him. Learn how best to approach and pet a horse so that you will both enjoy the experience.

Saying Hi From Afar

Announce your arrival using a firm yet soothing voice or whistle, not by running up to the horse and screaming with excitement. A horse cannot see directly in front of his face or behind him. Approaching from these areas may cause him to rear up or kick. Let him know you mean no harm by walking towards his shoulder where he can see you.

A Calm Presence

The horse will pick up on your physical communication. Relax and refrain from fidgeting to show a calm exterior. When horses approach each other, they say "hello" by touching noses and sniffing. You can accomplish this by showing the horse your hand, just below his nose and allow him to investigate. Keep your fingers together so that he doesn't mistake them for delicious carrots. He is showing acceptance if he lowers his head, turns towards you or licks his lips.

Proper Petting

As tempting as it is, don't pet the horse's head. Continue to face his shoulder from the side, petting the neck. Most horses enjoy a scratch on the neck just behind the ear or on the withers at the highest point of the shoulder. Discontinue petting if the horse backs away or shows disinterest. Vacate the horse’s personal space of 12 to 15 feet if he rears or kicks.

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Pam Smith has been writing since 2005. In addition to her work for Demand Media, her articles have been published online at CBS Local. She also wrote for the Pennsylvania Center for the Book's Literary Map while earning a Bachelor of Arts degree in English at the Pennsylvania State University. She is currently an editorial assistant for Circulation Research.